«Il giorno prima del matrimonio di mia figlia, mi disse: “Vuoi farmi un regalo? Allora sparisci dalla mia vita”. Rimasi in silenzio e feci esattamente quello che voleva. Dopo aver venduto la casa e annullato il matrimonio da sogno… lasciai un piccolo regalo nella casa vuota che lasciò tutta la sua famiglia sbalordita.»

the best in her.

The casual lies told for convenience. The manipulation of others’ perceptions. The selective presentation of facts to create desired impressions.

Traits that had culminated in her elaborate deceptions about our family finances and her cruel rejection when those deceptions were threatened.

“Nature and nurture,” I murmured. “All these years I’ve blamed myself for Amber’s behavior. Wondered what I did wrong in raising her… how I failed to instill better values.”

“But perhaps some of these tendencies were inherited—encoded in her DNA—from a father who could systematically