«Il giorno prima del matrimonio di mia figlia, mi disse: “Vuoi farmi un regalo? Allora sparisci dalla mia vita”. Rimasi in silenzio e feci esattamente quello che voleva. Dopo aver venduto la casa e annullato il matrimonio da sogno… lasciai un piccolo regalo nella casa vuota che lasciò tutta la sua famiglia sbalordita.»

of them. Venue, catering, flowers, music, photography—everything.”

After ending the call with the thoroughly flustered wedding planner, I moved systematically through my list.

The caterer. The florist. The string quartet. The photographer.

With each call, I calmly identified myself as the contracting party, referenced the relevant cancellation clause, and authorized whatever payments were necessary to compensate for the last-minute change.

By 9:30 a.m., I had dismantled every aspect of the seventy-five-thousand-dollar wedding I’d spent two years saving for.

My retirement account was significantly lighter. But a strange sense